Saturday, November 13, 2010

Sharing or Forcing?method of dawah...

Good day n hope all of us will be in a good condition.ameeen
Today,we goin 2 revise which method are better in our communication in our daily life...
In my understanding,i believe that we need to SHARE in stead of FORCE/BLAME other people follow our understanding.

I give an example based on my experience..

Firtsly,im so sorry for putting your comments in my blog,n i hav deleted my comment before the red undrline:
It is actually about boycotting.I believe n practice boycotting...So,when i saw they were enjoying eating Fastfood,i ambushed them  with my AK47 mouth-telling to boycott McD and a little bit sacastic..hehe
"sembang Islam,tp x reti boikot McD....Tolong r boikot McD!!!"-this is way how i wrote.

the next day,there was a little bit sound cutting my was so hurt!(u know what im saying,rite?)
I keep silent n give a smile(senyum tige...not a kedahian..tigAAA...)

Then,i realize that the way i told them is not right! I need to share my opinion,not forcing them to follow my understanding...n i've deleted my 1st comment n add a new comment...see the RED underline in the pic..

Alhamdulillah, it was so good when other people start giving their opinion to my perspective instead of just ignore n start to insult each other...

so,no FORCING n BLAMING other people..start sharing,life is a share..u must share what u have,n u will get what u gave......even in the Quran.Allah mentioned that we need to practise "dawah bil hikmah"...
InsyaAllah.bro n sis...let's us start to practice advise ourselves n others with a strategy n a way that other people easily can undersatnd n follow it( bil hikmah) k

-the end-

Now,lets us focus on why we should give ADVISE///SHARE with other people?

Do i have any obligation on them?Are they my siblings?why i need to advise others???

The reason is (sb called this is the lowest level/tahap plg redah r...)

سُوۡرَةُ الاٴعرَاف
وَإِذۡ قَالَتۡ أُمَّةٌ۬ مِّنۡہُمۡ لِمَ تَعِظُونَ قَوۡمًا‌ۙ ٱللَّهُ مُهۡلِكُهُمۡ أَوۡ مُعَذِّبُہُمۡ عَذَابً۬ا شَدِيدً۬ا‌ۖ قَالُواْ مَعۡذِرَةً إِلَىٰ رَبِّكُمۡ وَلَعَلَّهُمۡ يَتَّقُونَ (١٦٤

And when a community among them said: Why preach ye to a folk whom Allah is about to destroy or punish with an awful doom, they said: In order to be free from guilt before your Lord, and that haply they may ward off (evil). 
See!Allah already mentioned that at least we try to be FREE from guilt!that is the lowest,but in other to advise  other people,it not just like a malay idiom "melepaskan batuk di tangga" meaning that doing sth just 2 to done the task without caring whether we reach the objective or not.we need to try our best so that other people going to 
accept our advice.

(The guiding of them is not thy duty (O Muhammad), but Allah guideth whom He wil".(2:272"

  yeah.of course Allah is the one who gave the guidance but we need to try our very best in advising other people
Advise ourself and advise other people...say sth that we practice.....ameeen
ok nice to c u alll,plez leave a comment n so sorry for my fault in THANKS 4 reading!!!k


  1. salam abid :)

    u don't have to apologize about what u said in ur deleted comment. because its true and ur just doin da'wah among ur friends. we really need people like u in the community abid :)

    and about me n fast food. its not that i don't want to practice boycott but i have been raised since small by my family eating these food. its hard to just suddenly stop eating fast food..

    but alhamdulillah now i realized that its not worth it.. contributing my money to the westerns.. i will try my best to refrain from eating fast food and eat normal food from now on..

    thx abid and keep up the good work to be an excellent slave :D

  2. now i feel guilty sbb mkn McD... salahkan Suhaib! dier yg ajak XD
    tp suhaib btol, u dont need to apologise sbb u were right. i need to cut down on boycott material :-)